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Signs of an Abusive Relationship

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Published Date
March, 2022
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July 13, 2026
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This resource explores how abuse can uniquely affect neurodivergent individuals, particularly those with intellectual and developmental disabilities (IDD), by examining barriers to recognizing abuse, seeking support, and leaving unsafe relationships. It discusses the role of ableism, stigma, gaslighting, and communication differences in increasing vulnerability to abuse and offers practical, neurodiversity-informed tools, including a checklist of relationship warning signs and a therapist guide for identifying abuse in neurodivergent relationships. The resource helps survivors and providers better understand and respond to abuse through an accessible, affirming, and trauma-informed lens.